Missing friend

On May 1, 2008 a close friend committed suicide.  I don't even know what drove her to make a decision such as this one.  She had lost her job as a gynocologist a few months before I met her in May of 2007.  One thing I would like to say about her is that she loved her country.  I was attending the Goethe Institute as part of a summer study abroad program when we met.  It quickly became a routine where we would have a breakfast of bread, fruit and cheese before I ran off to class, then in the afternoons, we would have lunch together and talk about where we wanted to go.  She was so great about taking me places that I would not have otherwise seen.  Stolpen, Sächsische Schweiz , Pillnitz and Chemnitz just to name a few.  On the way to where ever we were going she would tell me the history behind what we were about to see.  It was so interesting to me.  One day we went to the German Hygene Museum to see an expedition called "Deadly Medicine"  it was about the experiments the Nazi's performed on people.  We both were teary eyed when we left.  For me, it was the most wonderful summer of my life.  Exploring Saxony, Germany with someone who was just as excited about the history as I was.  I made a promise to her that I would return as soon as possible.  As soon as possible wasn't soon enough for her.  I would just like to say "Thank you" to her for sharing her time and love for her country with me.  I miss her dearly.

Long-distance Relationships

I met a wonderful man with very clear goals for his life and dreams that mirror my own. He also has clear boundaries and isn't afraid to tell me "no". Most things that are important to me are also important to him. I am happy to have met such a man, as I think they are few and far between. One of the few things we don't agree on is football. He is a die hard Nebraska Huskers fan and I am an Alabama fan. At least he knows the Alabama theme song, so it is something to work with. I think he plans to try and convert me to a Nebraska fan....so I wish him luck with that one. I can teach him some German and maybe I will learn a little Huskers history.

Abortion rights

I am a avid supporter of the right to choose abortion. I am not sure if I could ever actually have one myself, but I believe that every woman in the US should have the freedom to make that decision. I support Dr. Carhart and his mission to ensure that women have a safe and legal alternative to giving birth.
What I do not understand about this issue is that the people who are avidly against abortion will go to any lengths to stop it, even if it means murdering the abortionist and harrassing clinic workers. Yet they use the belief that any killing is wrong to defend their anti-abortion stance. It seems to me that if they are against abortion they would also be against murder, however it is apparent with the murder of Dr. Tiller, that they don't have a problem murdering a doctor in his church.
It saddens me that Dr. Carhart has been named the number one target of Operation Rescue's murdering mafia. I wish that no matter what side of the issue people are on that they could back up and realize that the decision is very private and personal and they should respect that privacy. However, some people never grow up and make this realization.

Friends in Mobile

A truly good friend is one who will play the piano for you over Skype when you need cheering up, or drop you a line just to say that she is thinking about you . I am fortunate to have one of those special friends.

The best part of the story is that now she can play the piano for me in person and leave the sometimes unreliable Skype out of the equation. I am looking forward to the coming week with her and making lots of music and laughter during this time that we have together.

Racism

Racism, I believe, still runs rampant in the U.S. , however, what right does the President of the United States have to comment on a case that he did not personally witness? Answer, he doesn't have a right. It is true that racism still exist in the U.S. and throughout the world but unless you are a witness to the events, please hold your tongue Mr. President.

Medical Insurance Program

In the papers this morning was a story about the Senate Finance Committee's struggle to get some kind of medical insurance reform passed. I am extremely happy to hear that the talks now include a discussion about providing support to nonprofit cooperatives to sell insurance in competition to private companies and hold down cost as opposed to Obama's proposal that there be a government (socialist) medical program. As a general Obama supporter, I was alarmed when he wanted to introduce a government run medical program. All the american people have to do is look to Canada and Europe to see that government run programs are not the best in the world. While Germany has the best social medicine program, none of them could possibly work in the US. We have the best medical care in the world and it comes (unfortunately for most) at a cost. What is needed, is a new way to reign in the rapid acceleration of medical cost without curtailing the research being done to improve the quality of care.

Job Losses

It concerns me deeply that the people in the US are suffering so deeply from the fear of companies closing their doors. This translates into job loss of which I am now a part of the growing problem. I am looking for a job anywhere in the world and am willing to relocate, as long as the pay is sufficient. I wonder, though, about the people who have families which will be uprooted if the painful choice to relocate in order to secure a good paying job is made. Being single and childless has afforded me a flexibility that most people don't have.

My question to the President is this "What are you doing to reduce the economic strain on the American people?" So far I don't hear an answer and being an Obama supporter I am disappointed.